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hello, goodbye

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2002 5:06 am
by jacko
Hi ! This is my first message to the board, though I've been reading all your stuff for ages. I just never thought I had any thing worth saying.
Just over a week ago, I decided enough was enough, and said goodbye to the right arm that I've been lugging around for 5 years. Some of you may think I've taken the easy way out, rather than waiting for some further developments in recovery procedures, and you may be right. I think it's a brave and sensible person who continues to hope. But although the removal of the arm hasn't changed the weird pain/numbness/tingling/etc yet, it has made my life so much easier. One simple example: now when I use an angle grinder or a welder, I can keep both eyes on the job, and not worry that I have ground off my thumb! In case you feel the same way about removal as I did, I'll update this later. Bye!

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2002 7:08 am
by jennyb
Wow, Jacko, that's quite a decision! I've thought about it on and off for years, I'm still not decided either way, I assume I'll know if and when it's the right time. I know amputation doesn't cure the pain but you're right, the arm itself is a bit of a liability at best, a bloody nuisance at worst, especially if you're very active. I'd be interested to hear how you get on, keep us posted and good luck :0)

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2002 2:50 pm
by athos
Just wanted to say hello. Some of us got off lighter than others. All the best to you.

Ciao, Athos

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2002 5:22 pm
by Mindy
I think what you did took a lot of courage. Look into some of the prosthesis out there... The ones I have seen make me wonder...
Mindy

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2002 7:27 pm
by Paul
your a brave man I have thoght about it a lettle bit. but I have to keep looking its almost like i belive thair must be repair i have not herd about. so i will keep looking for now........ keep us up to date this is your topic now. paul

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Sun Jun 23, 2002 10:35 pm
by John K
Hey Jacko

Im tbpi getting close to 3 years. I have often thought about amputation as well. I have had surgeries with no recovery. It seems my next move is live with the bpi arm or take it off. I just dont know how id deal with the pain with my arm not being there. But getting this dead weight of my back would be worth it I bet. Would love to hear updates from you. I wish you the best thanks for sharing you story with us.

John

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Wed Jul 03, 2002 1:17 am
by sara
hi jennyb what bravery you have, can i ask a question, my brother just had accident in april and i am his caretaker and i cannot begin to go to the level bpi endure but he has the most pain in this phantom arm, i will catch him sqeezing mid air, if you had that did you lose it after this procedure. sara

Re: hello, goodbye

Posted: Wed Jul 03, 2002 1:35 am
by jennyb
Hi sara, it was jacko who had the amputation, not me, i'm not that brave (yet). Amputation doesn't do anything to help the phantom pain, though, but it can help ease the dragging weight of the arm on your neck/shoulder. For the phantom pain check this website http://www.chiroweb.com/archives/13/10/25.html
Hope your brother gets som relief soon :0)